When deregistering a bus, attempt to flush out all outstanding

When deregistering a bus, attempt to flush out all outstanding
operations before returning. Point the bus at a dummy cam_sim
structure so that any CCBs will complete immediately with a
CAM_DEV_NOT_THERE status, and ensure that any xpt_schedule() calls
on the bus's devices will immediately call the peripheral's
periph_start() routine. Also repeat the async messages because
devices that were part of the way through being probed may appear
after the original AC_LOST_DEVICE was sent, and would otherwise
never go away.

Obtained-from: FreeBSD