locales, libconv: Sync with FreeBSD (extensive reach)

locales, libconv: Sync with FreeBSD (extensive reach)

What started out as a relatively simply upgrade to libiconv finally
resulted in a simultaneous overhaul to locales, strings, and stdio.
All of these are interdependent and there is no way to upgrade them
individually or in steps.

These cases are similar to what happened with libm where significant
syncing came from NetBSD previously, rendering contributions from
FreeBSD difficult.  Libiconv and locales (both ancient) are now in
sync with FreeBSD HEAD.

As several headers were signficantly updated and the mtree was updated
to accommodate the new include/xlocale directory, this commit will
require a full world build.  It also may cause some dports to no longer
build due to prototype differences, but the dports will be adjusted.

The regexp library was not being used.  It was removed from FreeBSD four
years ago.  Since it required collate updates, I took the opportunity to
remove it completely by adding re_comp functionality to 4.3 compat
library like FreeBSD did.

__DragonFly_version has been bumped to 500300.