kernel - Greatly improve concurrent fork's and concurrent exec's

kernel - Greatly improve concurrent fork's and concurrent exec's

* Rewrite all the vm_fault*() API functions to use a two-stage methodology
  which keeps track of whether a shared or exclusive lock is being used
  on fs.first_object and fs.object.  For most VM faults a shared lock is
  sufficient, particularly under fork and exec circumstances.

  If the shared lock is not sufficient the functions will back-down to an
  exclusive lock on either or both elements.

* Implement shared chain locks for use by the above.

* kern_exec - exec_map_page() now attempts to access the page with a
  shared lock first, and backs down to an exclusive lock if the page
  is not conveniently available.

* vm_object ref-counting now uses atomic ops across the board.  The
  acquisition call can operate with a shared object lock.  The deallocate
  call will optimize decrementation of ref_count for values above 3 using
  an atomic op without needing any lock at all.

* vm_map_split() and vm_object_collapse() and associated functions are now
  smart about handling terminal (e.g. OBJT_VNODE) VM objects and will use
  a shared lock when possible.

* When creating new shadow chains in front of a OBJT_VNODE object, we no
  longer enter those objects onto the OBJT_VNODE object's shadow_head.
  That is, only DEFAULT and SWAP objects need to track who might be shadowing
  them.  TODO: This code needs to be cleaned up a bit though.

  This removes another exclusive object lock from the critical path.

* vm_page_grab() will use a shared object lock when possible.