kernel -- ffs: Soft updates locking fixes
1) Do not take mplock in bioops callbacks; the lock was no longer synchronizing
against mainline code.
2) Do not hold softdep lock around bwillinode()
3) Take softdep lock in softdep_process_worklist bioops callback. This callback
was previously using the mplock for synchronization (insufficiently!)
4) Modify process_worklist_item to expect the softdep lock to be held on
entry and release it at appropriate times.
Prevents a panic seen when running fsstress on a UFS+softdep fs, where fsync
finds a null buffer on vnode trees. This arose from a front-end/back-end
race in softdep_process_worklist.